8 Most Common Mistakes Women Make In Relationship

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Just to know that somebody loves you makes a great day better. However, fun, excitement and love are just one side of relationship. Fights and conflicts are things that every couple encounters, some more than others. So we brought you a list of 8 most common mistakes women make in relationships.

1. Jealousy

A little bit of jealousy is ok, but going crazy every single time your man is near other woman is just nonsense. Men are men, and they are going to look at other women no matter what you do so being overly dramatic about it is not going to do any good whatsoever.

Confident women are wanted by men all around the world, and since they are not jealous or possessive, both sides in relationship can feel secure. Also being constantly suspicious will not help you, given the fact that trust is the key in every successful relationship. The world is built on trust and we all know that lack of it could cause serious issues and bitterness. Just be yourself and give your man a balanced relationship so both of you can be happy. Don’t be childish and allow jealousy destroy the thing you cherish the most.

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2. Drama

Most men are not that complicated at all and they often use logic and reason to solve problems they encounter, so being worked up all the time will not bring your relationship where you want it to go.

Men are proving their value by resolving issues and hopefully making it easier for you. They are pretty relaxed and easy to handle if they are not working but they hate to waste their time doing something they believe will not give results. Simply said, men don’t like it when women get all emotional and upset, their masculine energy goes down quickly as they just don’t like drama. You should really look for some other ways of getting the attention because this one will rarely bring success long term.

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3. Checking you partners phone

If you have serious doubts about your man, then something is clearly wrong and you need to solve it as soon as possible. Men view checking their phone as a breach of trust so snooping won’t do any good, it will actually make things worse. Ignoring the doubts won’t help as well because it will eat you up from inside.

So basically all that you need is a healthy, honest conversation. Texts can be very tricky and can make you see things out of context so jumping to conclusion could kill even a perfectly functioning relationship. As we said earlier trust is a cornerstone to every relationship so if you don’t have it, take it as a sign that something is wrong. On the other hand don’t just blindly believe anything you hear and if your doubt is strong maybe you should think about ending the relationship.

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4. Trying to change a man

You go on a date, meet a man you like but everything you see are the flaws waiting to be corrected by you. Basically a man is giving his all to impress you and all you think about is how to change him.

Now, why would anybody like that? Criticizing his haircut or the way he dresses won’t actually make him do what you want. Unwanted suggestions are rarely welcome so why do it in the first place. Everybody wants to be appreciated and liked for who they are and what they represent so your constant remarks are better left unspoken. Some women even try to change their long term partner but do you really want to change the man you fell in love with?

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5. Dumping your insecurities on to him

It is not your man fault that you feel unattractive or you have a bad hair day so be responsible and don’t dump your problems on your partner.

You being scared that he is going to leave you for somebody younger is not something that he needs to worry about so don’t make your personal problem into a relationship one. There must be a reason why your partner selected you and not somebody else, so don’t highlight your flaws or feel insecure because things change quickly. Men really like confident women so try not to bother your man too much. Also, a lot of your flaws are probably not even noticed so constantly talking about them can only make things worse. Nobody’s perfect so embrace your beauty.

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6. Expecting the worst

Stereotypes are everywhere, especially if we are talking about men. It is pretty easy to point out all the bad thing men and women do, but we often forget that those things are done by individuals.

Woman in relationship should always remind everybody of the fact that not all men are the same and that her partner is perfect proof of that. When you expect the worst from your man not only will you would feel disappointed constantly but eventually your expectations might be met because of your nagging. Don’t judge your man without any evidence and even if you do find a proof, just keep repeating the words of understanding and patience to yourself when you eventually talk to him. Just be positive.

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7. You’re too assertive

This must be one of the most common mistakes women do over and over again. After one date, one kiss or one sex, women automatically assume that they are in relationship.

Man has this, almost primitive, desire for freedom which goes deep into their DNA. If somebody catches you by surprise and holds you tight, you would instinctively try to find ways to release yourself and break free. So we can say that this is in human nature, not just in men. Masculine energy will not allow men to simply give up freedom, only if you convince them that you can offer something better they might loosen up. Stick to a proverb “There is a time for everything” and have patience.

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8. Valuing money over personality

Money is a good thing that you simply must have to live a normal life. It is even better to have a man with enough money to fulfill his but also your wishes as well.

But, women sometimes make a mistake of choosing somebody just because his money instead of somebody who doesn’t have as much but is actually a decent human being. It is extremely difficult to get the respect of a rich man if you don’t have it from the moment you met. Humble man with character who loves you might even become rich one day, but chances of that man treating you badly are close to zero because you were with him from the very beginning. That’s something money just can’t buy.